Sorry to hear, Sam! It's always tough losing loved ones...I lost my mom at 16 and am thankful to still have my dad around, but unfortunately we live 1000 miles apart and I always worry that by the time I'm stable enough to move closer or at least visit far more often, it could end up being too late. I am glad you were able to remain so close with your family...both physically and emotionally. I always hate when I talk to people and they're still holding a grudge about some petty fight from years earlier and refuse to speak with their loved ones. There's a time where that grudge will automatically be put aside...and that's when you or they die. Problem is, that grudge then turns to regret for not putting it aside sooner. Obviously there are some unforgivable acts that warrant a grudge, but people really need to put the petty stuff behind them...forgive (not necessarily "forget") and move on. Life is short. Enjoy it and enjoy your friends and family.
I wish your family the best during these times.
“The two most important days in your life are the day you are born and the day you find out why.” —Mark Twain.