bar1080, it was one of the strangest things I've ever experienced...
As you already know...
"She would not allow me any free time to study stocks myself, even though I asked her multiple times, her answer would be "Oh, so now you don't love me and don't want to spend time with me?" That was what she thought, even if I were to try and read about stocks in her presence, in the same room, I guess anything that even momentarily took the focus of her was forbidden."
I even told her...but, the stock investing if done right could benefit you and us, I'd have more money to spend on you.
You asked, how did she feel about me going to work?
Well, we worked at the same place in different departments. She would come down to my office and would make a bit of a scene, in that she would speak inappropriately to my male co-workers, by either being too loud, or by literally climbing my cubicle wall to look over at me.(It was meant to be funny, but my boss caught her doing it and it was very embarrassing to me.)
When I in private and politely asked her to tone it down and notch and mentioned that this is a place of business, she got upset that I was trying to take her fun away...(A totally unreasonable response.)
If I had acted that same way in her department, talking to her female co-workers loudly and climbing the office wall, she would have flipped out on me. (Obviously, she had different rules for her and me and different rules for her and everyone else.
She would question me about all the female co-workers in my sub department and expect me to know all the details about them and I would honestly say...
I don't know their names or what exact jobs they do, I think they're older than me and married. I just stick to myself at work and my own area/department and then her answer to me would be "WHATEVER!" (I guess she thought I was having an affair with all the older, fatter, married women in my sub department.)
Apparently, this woman didn't know what healthy boundaries are...
One other example and there are many...I took her out to do karaoke, because she loved it and even though, dancing wasn't allowed, she would dance in front of everyone, but it wasn't "just" dancing, it was literally with no hands, dragging her booty across the floor in front of everyone...(I guess she needed attention?)
Even when her dad told her that no dancing was allowed there, she got mad and continued to do the booty-drag dance.(Her dad showed up there to do karaoke as well.) Her dancing reminded me of a dog, scooting it's butt across the floor carpet after a messy poop, to wipe it off and leave skid marks.
FYI, I know it's generally not good to date someone that works for the same company, but we were in different departments...I highly doubt I'd ever date someone at my same company again.
No, we did not get married.
FYI, this was only the tip of the ice-burg of all the terrible, crazy and bad stuff that happened.)
