Last post of mine on this subject...
If anyone cares to know the whole story, I'll be happy to explain in detail, providing links and backup to what I've said via private message in order to spare the board any more of this.
My final statement on invasion of privacy. I believe the TOU should following the legal defintion which would indicate that posting any personal information that is not directly relevent to public concern is unlawful.
I will fully comply with this rule.
Further, I believe anyone that professes the tactic of snagging peoples IP information by lurring them to their personal website for the purpose of using that information to threaten them, should not be allowed to post such links.
Sara
Sara 
"I never give them hell. I just tell the truth and they think it's hell." - Harry Truman
