Matt,
I was commenting on the fact that you were divining her reasoning for leaving the message up as "it didn't bother her". It did not occur to you that she might not like the link being there, but because she said that she wouldn't delete posts on that board, that she couldn't apply the rules differently to stuff said about her. As you pointed out about Francois, if he wanted the information posted on iHub, he would have done it. mmmary didn't post the information, therefore she did not want it up there....by your own reasoning.
Since you have made it clear that posts with links to personal information are off limits, once you were made aware of the message, you should not have argued about it, you should not have waited for mmmary to say anything, you should have deleted it. Otherwise.....you know....appearances.
