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he is not the one who applies for Medicaid

that's a stupid comment... he's not having the baby and doesn't need the medical care.

when I referred to him as a "bum" it was in the context of why she might not want to marry him. I didn't say he was or wasn't... but if he has a good job and isn't stepping up to the plate and offering assistance, then maybe the shoe fits.

They are both responsible. And the sad fact is that it is very difficult for a young single parent (or even couple) to support a unexpected child regardless of any judgements people may have about them. Hence, there is assistance for the benefit of the child. And I believe it is in the benefit to society as a whole, to give every child a healthy start so they can become a healthy and productive member of society.

You're not off the hook. You whole original post speaks for itself... it reeked of sexism.

p.s. when my step daughter and her husband had an unexpected child, they lived with me for a year and a half until they could get on their feet. They now have their own place, but are definitely struggling to make ends meet. They are wonderful parents.