pick for what? a waiter? ha ha... at first blush not know ing more @ either, its easy. I always go for quality not outward appearances.(chances are REAL GOOD that they can be shallow and self absorbed if they ,too, think they are "really really good looking").
over the long run- and I am talking about 6 months and on, the thing that will matter is not what he looks like but how he looks at you and how he treats you. Day in and day out, THAT'S what will go the distance. Love is a commitment not a feeling or a feeling of infatuation. peeps who think its a feeling of being "head over heels" are going for that initial infatuation stage and consequently go from person to person to repeating that stage in order to have "that feeling" again and again. it is just one of the many stages and it is not supposed to last- it will morph into another stage and then another as you and your relationship mature.
Age does not matter as much as maturity, caring, campassion etc...
" Love is patient,love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. Love always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perserveres. Love never fails. " 1 Corinthians 13
Remember what you want at 18 may not b what you want at 24, 28, 35.... I know you are older than that but the concept is a good one.
hmmmmm, also he needs to be able to cook! ha ha!!!
This was TMI for simple question- and I know good and well it was NOT hypothetical- but there it is!
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