How could we ever be thankful and appreciate the good times if there were no bad times......I try to remember, and often forget, but when I remember things go much better...Remember???/. OH YA, I got it back....when bad stuff comes along, I ask God----"OK !! I got this mess, I don't know how to handle it so what do You want me to do with it"-----IMO, God is in charge/control, when I remember to turn it all over to Him things just have a way of working out and those times I try to be in control----well, some things are just better left unsaid