CMKM Diamonds Inc. (fka CMKX)

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Acca,Re:":"Welcome all Bona Fide CMKM Shareholders....Des came by 6-7-16...1000% confident in our success.....Acca can't speak to us right now...."

We like what we see,feel and smell so far.
Acca signed in just before the April deadline.
Peter Maheu passes early April.
No .40/.14 payday behind door#3.
No whistleblowing.
Acca stays quiet until early June.
Des says Acca can't talk to us.
Acca signs in June 13.
We felt the remaing team would take a couple of months to decide what's next.
It looks like we were right and they updated Acca.
Our guess has been the remaing team will drop any claims to our funds.
And we will recieve the entire .54 pps collected by Robert Maheu.
When? Door#5(June) looks good to us.
No inside info here just voices in my head.
HH

Here is something for all:

Dysfunctional Families... Like Yours(Ours)!
"One of the major figures and contributors to this significant and essential shift in self-awareness is John Bradshaw. John Bradshaw has pioneered the concept of the “Inner Child” and brought the term “dysfunctional family” into the mainstream. He has touched and changed millions of lives through his books, television series, and his lectures and workshops around the country. In so many ways, John Bradshaw has been a pivotal force in bringing people out of hiding, and out from the toxic shame that always accompanies hiding. Through his teachings in his writings, on TV, and in person, he has synthesized and articulated complex principles of human growth and family dysfunction, so that not only can people understand it, they can put these learnings to good use. As any good teacher does, he opens our eyes to new possibilities, he helps us remove the crusted prisms through which we’ve seen life. He gives us hope and he shows us a way out. And, as any good teacher, he leaves it to us to do the work, to practice the principles, to live according to our highest values. John Bradshaw has helped so many to understand how we got to be the way we are. He has demystified the process of human learning and growth, and he has done so much to help begin to remove the stigma and burden of self-shame, self-blame, and self-hatred.
John Bradshaw offers a message of hope: that there’s a way out from the painful and hurtful patterns that we learned growing up in a dysfunctional world and in dysfunctional families.As a true Teacher of our Times, John Bradshaw is helping point the way.

Dysfunctional Families... Like Yours(Ours)!
"ALL families are dysfunctional IMO so what can we do to improve things? Keep on learning new habits and unlearning old dysfunctional habits from our childhood. I have been doing it for decades and still doing it because adults are programmed and deprogramming is very difficult. Got food issues? LOL Why do we struggle with diets over and over? These are lifelong battles with self.
Don't give up our families are worth it. The young ones are helpless and need us to learn healthy habits in every part of life.Relationship skills start at birth.Learning how to deal with fear and pain in healthy ways is so important. I have been helped a great deal by listening to John Bradshaw over and over. Give him a try. Here is an article worth reading and below is a link to John Bradshaw videos on youtube.

Dysfunctional Families... Like Yours(Ours)!
ALL families are dysfunctional
By Glenn Campbell
Family Court Philosopher

"It is said that to speak a language without a foreign accent, a child must learn it before a certain age—somewhere between 5 and 12. Up to that point, language acquisition is effortless and instinctual. Young kids automatically mimic what they hear around them and absorb it automatically into their nervous systems with little formal teaching. They don't even know they have a native accent or that other languages are possible.
But language isn't the only thing being absorbed during this period. Kids are also forming their basic assumptions about life—their constructs of reality. Having mysteriously arrived in a strange body and an alien environment, they are learning how to fuse with their role so that their body and environment seems to be the natural state of things. They look to the god-like beings around them to tell them who they are in the world. Whatever the gods seem to tell them—in words, actions and implicit attitude—the young ones tend to absorb without question.
A kid who grows up in a dysfunctional family doesn't know it's dysfunctional. He thinks this is the way of the universe. Without skepticism he absorbs the assumptions of the family into the very core of his being. He doesn't know that his reality is twisted. It is only when he interacts with the rest of the world that he wonders what is wrong.

"Native languages—both verbal and non-verbal—can be extremely difficult to unlearn. It can be very hard for an adult to learn a foreign language because the patterns of his native tongue are always getting in the way. Instead of starting out fresh like a child does, an adult has to understand and suppress certain parts of his own language before he can learn a new one.
Language learning in childhood is emotional and instinctual. In adulthood, it is much more intellectual and systematic. An adult has to explicitly learn the rules of grammar of the new language. He must also analyse and disable the rules of his native language when they interfere with the new one. In the end, he may eventually become fluent in the new language, but he will probably always have the accent.

"In a family you also learn another kind of language—an unspoken one. This is a language of identity and social interaction. During the early years, a child learns whether he is smart or dumb, whether the world is fair or unfair, whether he will get attention by negotiation or by throwing a fit. He learns what is supposedly important in life, as defined by the people around him. These are the unwritten emotional assumptions that he will retain for his entire lifetime unless he explicitly and awkwardly unlearns them.
Sure, an adult can learn new ways of interacting with the world, but it can be a long and painful process because the patterns of his native language are so deeply ingrained.
If you think this applies only to troubled families and obviously self-destructive behaviors, think again. In one way or another, ALL families are dysfunctional. Even the most enlightened and well-meaning parents are going to impose a non-verbal language on their child which is not entirely within their conscious control and that is not all good.

"Every family produces their own brand of dysfunction—their own Billy Carter. The fact is, every family teaches only one provincial language, and there are always ways that it can be unhealthy and traumatic and that kids can react badly to it.
For example, imagine a family that meets all the cultural ideals: a two-parent household with a mother and father who have been together since the beginning of time, financially and emotionally stable, living in a nice part of town where the children are protected and all seems to be right in the world. You know, a Norman Rockwell sort of family in an Andy-of-Mayberry community. What could be wrong with this picture?
Even a "functional" family—if there were such a thing—is setting a child up for heartbreak, because it conditions him to an unrealistic expectation about the rest of the world. A socially perfect family can be a falsely-protective cocoon that isn't necessarily preparing the child for the harsher demards of the outside. Rich kids go through trauma, too, especially when they have to emerge from the cocoon into some form of adult self-sufficiency. The family may try to insulate the child by sending him to the best schools, bringing him into the family business or protecting him when he makes mistakes, but ultimately this is a distorted reality that might not do the child any favors.
In every family, you can find some delusional assumptions and destructive patterns of behavior. You could say that we spend much of our adulthoods trying to undo the damage that our families have wrought upon us. We struggle to learn new languages as we try to unlearn the dysfunctional patterns of our native one.

"In the end, you can never fully unlearn your first language. Instead, you must find an accommodation with it. Some of the things your mother taught you are probably going to be influencing you for the rest of your life, while other things you would be best to surgically remove. In the end, you are probably going to look like your mother, sound like your mother, and have your mother's basic cultural outlook.
Still, for your own health, you must find a way to tweak the package to make it totally your own.
Highly recommended for all:

John Bradshaw - Homecoming 10 videos

Customer Review:

John Bradshaw's "Family", "Healing the Shame that Binds You" and "Homecoming" changed my life. The first showed me where I came from and how I got to be the way I was.