LOL! I've helped people for years with their finances for free. This isn't going to be a pissing contest.
You claimed the military or "we" need to help with the Ebola virus. Your "we" clearly means someone who is not you. Quit evading. What have you done? Helping your town committee only means you are helping yourself. Big deal. The equivalent of being on the condo board. That's your idea of aiding?
It seems you are very happy to volunteer someone else's life to help the world. You are extremely magnanimous.
As to whether or not I was pissed about my kid going in, I supported his decision for his need to defend his country. Why do you keep trying to flip this to me? As a kid, did you use the phrase, "I'm rubber, you're glue...." often?
Just my opinion, of course.