I suspect that I won't be able to rely on Bob here.
And you probably think that saying STFU or GFY is worse than someone making direct accusations about someone, and that person then refutes the statements, and yet you still won't retract your accusations.
I bet when you were a kid you were one of those wimps who would run up and slug somebody and then run back to your mommy crying so that you wouldn't get hit back.
If you are going to throw a punch, at least stand up and fight.