I am a bleeding heart but I also grew up on a farm. Once, I worked all summer when I was a kid for my grandfather for a $100 bill. As soon as I got it, I ran off to K-mart and buy a new Zebco fishing rod and some tackle. Watched that rod like a hawk and never let even my brother buy it. When I got older, my father showed back up on the scene and decided to buy me a car "because he loved me." What did I do? I took it mudding and broke both axles within about 6 months. So I guess I have to say I agree with your statement.
Only exception I know from experience is that most homeless we work with have severe mental and emotional issues that limit their ability to function in "normal society," whatever that is.
Anyway, have a great weekend everyone. FL-GA weekend in Jax and the weather is horrendous and nor'easter is forming. As much as FL has no defense and can score in a hurry, this could be a messy game. Might consider taking the under on the points...
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